It seems that the best way I found to approach this, is how we decided from the time we first learned the diagnosis over two years ago - take one day at a time.
These days will be busy on purpose, with friends and family. I think about this very special man everyday. He is here in every room of this house, he's visible in each of the kids in various ways. There's been tears and there sure will be more, but they won't out number the memories and thoughts of this amazing man.
We won't think of him as gone away
Just think of him as resting
Where there are no days or years
And think of him as living
In the hearts of those he touched
For nothing loved is ever lost
And he was loved so much